I'm Not Settling for His Anger Problems

I guess I never realized that my husband's outbursts were really just his anger problems. I thought it was normal for men to be angry like that, but I suppose that I should have known better. I told him that he should go sign up for anger management classes, otherwise I am leaving. I did not know that I did not have to stand for this, and it just hurts me a lot when I found out that I had been settling for it for years. I had been tolerating his abusive comments. I told him that if he really loves me, he is going to have to really look at what matters the most in his life and really decide what he wants to do. He can either get the help that he needs, and I will be there to support him, or he can let his life go as it is, and I just won't be here to tolerate it anymore.